First off, I want to share with you something that is a definitely holding back from our success.
I think here are FOUR of the most common PATTERNS that keeps showing up in our journey:
Saying and not doing. We blame life’s punches, and it’s low blows, and we say to ourselves… I’ll do it when the time is right.
2. LACK OF SUSTAINED FOCUS ON ONE PROJECT.
This is when we take on too many things on our plate, and the work piles up on us. We get too many plates spinning at once and we lose focus.
3. PEOPLE PLEASING.
This is when we do too much work for free for others, thinking that we are being nice. Spending too much time supporting other people’s laziness, thinking they will eventually change and be a customer. NO, it doesn’t work that way.
4. FEAR OF FAILURE.
Fear of ridicule and looking bad. We want to put out videos, and we are excited about it, but when it comes to actually start recording we fear what people will think.
No matter how much we INTEND to change… why is it so damn HARD for us to permanently break our UNPRODUCTIVE HABITS?
And actually create lasting change…
So we can enjoy more freedom, more happiness and more income in our lives?
Well – here’s what I think:
Turns out it has A LOT to do with something called “HABIT GRAVITY”.
Habit gravity is the resistance that shows up anytime you want to make a CHANGE in your life.
It all starts in your brain.
Basically, whenever you attempt to change your behavior, this defense mechanism hijacks your thoughts and pulls you back down to your OLD ways of behaving.
Ever joined a gym… and stopped going after a couple stiff n’ sore workouts?
Ever started a new diet… and quit after your sugar cravings “forced” you to eat those Twinkies?
Ever starting working on an online business, only to chicken out months later because you’re too afraid of failing (or of the work ahead of you)?
THAT’S HABIT GRAVITY IN ACTION.
Instead of forever changing your thoughts and behavior in ways that can make you healthier and wealthier, your brain stubbornly tries to keep you the same.
To say habit gravity can hold you back from improving your quality of your life would be a massive understatement.
So I’M GOING TO BE BLUNT…
You MUST come to terms with habit gravity. If not, you’re in SERIOUS DANGER of getting stuck in old ways of thinking and behaving…
Unproductive habits that will hold you back from earning the income and living the lifestyle you deserve.
Because to truly kick ass, you’re going to need to change the way you think and the way you do most things.
Let’s talk about an IMMEDIATE GOAL that we have…
“Let’s say… You want to BUILD CASH-FLOW BUSINESS to give you financial freedom.”
Is HABIT GRAVITY holding you back?
You KNOW it does.
Procrastination, lack of focus, people pleasing, and fear of failure is definitely a part of this unwanted delay.
And like you, I was also suffering from these things. I still do in some degree.
In 2017, I found myself in deep waters. I knew how to make money online, and have been for over a decade.
But I hit a ceiling and knew that I needed a totally new set of skills to have a breakthrough to the next level.
These SAME habit gravity kept me doubting myself and within one year, I found myself in over 600K in business and personal debt.
I knew that if I gave up, I would be living my worst nightmare. Working for someone who did not care about me or my desires, and living a life of paycheck to paycheck, and struggling all my life.
Gravity is just a HABIT!
I started putting my time, money and energy into Money Making activities, instead of wasting time on focusing on other people’s ideas.
I started creating, researching and joining businesses that had real potential for growth. I spend more time educating myself and others.
I started helping and focusing ONLY on people who really wanted to change their lives. I learned how to recognize time wasters, and tire kickers and stayed passive with them.
I realized that if I need to create cash-flow generating business, then I need to focus more time on cash-generating activities.
I realized that I needed to create multiple streams of income and income even while I was sleeping.
This is what I did for the past year and half and it’s paying off in a BIG way. I am more than stable in my life and I learned many valuable lessons.
I am THANKFUL and I want to share what I have learned to people who would listen.
IF you have promised yourself something, DO IT NOW! The more you procrastinate, the longer it takes.
Why suffer, when you know that YOU CAN DO ANYTHING you put your mind on.
Habit Gravity is REAL. When it happens just realize that, and KEEP MOVING!
Gravity is just a habit!