Is HABIT GRAVITY holding you back?

Is HABIT GRAVITY holding you back?

First off, I want to share with you something that is a definitely holding back from our success.

I think here are FOUR of the most common PATTERNS that keeps showing up in our journey:

1. PROCRASTINATION.

Saying and not doing. We blame life’s punches, and it’s low blows, and we say to ourselves… I’ll do it when the time is right.

2. LACK OF SUSTAINED FOCUS ON ONE PROJECT.

This is when we take on too many things on our plate, and the work piles up on us. We get too many plates spinning at once and we lose focus.

3. PEOPLE PLEASING.

This is when we do too much work for free for others, thinking that we are being nice. Spending too much time supporting other people’s laziness, thinking they will eventually change and be a customer. NO, it doesn’t work that way.

4. FEAR OF FAILURE.

Fear of ridicule and looking bad. We want to put out videos, and we are excited about it, but when it comes to actually start recording we fear what people will think.

No matter how much we INTEND to change… why is it so damn HARD for us to permanently break our UNPRODUCTIVE HABITS?

And actually create lasting change…

So we can enjoy more freedom, more happiness and more income in our lives?

Habit Gravity

Well – here’s what I think:

Turns out it has A LOT to do with something called “HABIT GRAVITY”.

Habit gravity is the resistance that shows up anytime you want to make a CHANGE in your life.

It all starts in your brain.

Basically, whenever you attempt to change your behavior, this defense mechanism hijacks your thoughts and pulls you back down to your OLD ways of behaving.

Ever joined a gym… and stopped going after a couple stiff n’ sore workouts?

Ever started a new diet… and quit after your sugar cravings “forced” you to eat those Twinkies?

Ever starting working on an online business, only to chicken out months later because you’re too afraid of failing (or of the work ahead of you)?

THAT’S HABIT GRAVITY IN ACTION.

Instead of forever changing your thoughts and behavior in ways that can make you healthier and wealthier, your brain stubbornly tries to keep you the same.

To say habit gravity can hold you back from improving your quality of your life would be a massive understatement.

So I’M GOING TO BE BLUNT…

You MUST come to terms with habit gravity. If not, you’re in SERIOUS DANGER of getting stuck in old ways of thinking and behaving…

Unproductive habits that will hold you back from earning the income and living the lifestyle you deserve.

Because to truly kick ass, you’re going to need to change the way you think and the way you do most things.

Let’s talk about an IMMEDIATE GOAL that we have…

“Let’s say… You want to BUILD CASH-FLOW BUSINESS to give you financial freedom.”

Is HABIT GRAVITY holding you back?

You KNOW it does.

Procrastination, lack of focus, people pleasing, and fear of failure is definitely a part of this unwanted delay.

And like you, I was also suffering from these things. I still do in some degree.

In 2017, I found myself in deep waters. I knew how to make money online, and have been for over a decade.

But I hit a ceiling and knew that I needed a totally new set of skills to have a breakthrough to the next level.

These SAME habit gravity kept me doubting myself and within one year, I found myself in over 600K in business and personal debt.

I knew that if I gave up, I would be living my worst nightmare. Working for someone who did not care about me or my desires, and living a life of paycheck to paycheck, and struggling all my life.

Gravity is just a HABIT!

I started putting my time, money and energy into Money Making activities, instead of wasting time on focusing on other people’s ideas.

I started creating, researching and joining businesses that had real potential for growth. I spend more time educating myself and others.

I started helping and focusing ONLY on people who really wanted to change their lives. I learned how to recognize time wasters, and tire kickers and stayed passive with them.

I realized that if I need to create cash-flow generating business, then I need to focus more time on cash-generating activities.

I realized that I needed to create multiple streams of income and income even while I was sleeping.

This is what I did for the past year and half and it’s paying off in a BIG way. I am more than stable in my life and I learned many valuable lessons.

I am THANKFUL and I want to share what I have learned to people who would listen.

So…

IF you have promised yourself something, DO IT NOW! The more you procrastinate, the longer it takes.

Why suffer, when you know that YOU CAN DO ANYTHING you put your mind on.

Habit Gravity is REAL. When it happens just realize that, and KEEP MOVING!

Gravity is just a habit!

It’s Time To Hit The Reset Button.

It’s Time To Hit The Reset Button.

You are convinced that something MUST change. But you are struggling to figure it out.
 
Sometimes an area of your life, or perhaps more than one, has gone COMPLETELY OFF TRACK and you feel like you can’t move forward.
 
I have experienced this heavy and uncomfortable feeling many times that I have lost count.
 
We call it “Hitting A Wall”… Paralysis, inertia, and being stuck!
 
Everyone hits a wall in their journey.
 
No matter how hard you push forward, you seem to be hitting it and you can’t move forward.
 
Reality is that we have been walking with our EYES WIDE SHUT.
 
We are seeing things but we are ONLY seeing things that we WANT to see.
 
Open your eyes… do you see a physical WALL? Nooooo… But it certainly feels like it…
 
This is because it’s in our MIND. Its a MENTAL barrier and it feels physical.
 
It’s time to hit the RESET BUTTON.
 
Here is a technique that I read in a book, many years ago, called “THE POWER PAUSE”, by John Harricharan.
 
3 steps and 3 focused minutes to eliminate your mental barriers and move forward.
 
1. Step one – UN-CLUTCH. The negative feeling we are holding to is just a thing… Un-clutch it from your mind and let them go.
 
2. Step two – VISUALIZE the best possible outcome that can happen to you. Be specific.
 
3. Step Three – PAUSE.. and don’t think, or talk about it…
 
This might sound simple and silly but there are greater powers that work behind the scenes (your sub conscious mind) that will manifest your intentions….
 
But you have to Unclutch, activate the desired outcome, and let it GO.
 
I have used this technique many times, and working on it right now, because I NEED A RESET. A POWER PAUSE!
 
Have a great day my friends,
 
Much Love.
Abe
 
PS. John Harricharan’s book “THE POWER PAUSE” is an amazing read, so go check it out on Amazon.
Your Life and Business can be Rich only when you Master Your Relationships!

Your Life and Business can be Rich only when you Master Your Relationships!

Life is RICH beyond measure when you MASTER your “Relationships”.

Sometimes, I am convinced that the “meaning of life” is to learn from the interactions with our environment…. people, places, things, and NATURE itself.

Relationships are complex… VERY complex.

Imagine if you can create harmony and peace with people, places, things, and nature — your LIFE WOULD BE PERFECTO!

(Money doesn’t even come close, and money will NEVER be an issue if we can master our relationships)

The complexity of relationships in our lifespan is what makes us a wise person….

Your relationship with…

…your parents… your grand parents… brothers and sisters… relatives…. colleagues… your business associates…. your customers…. your wife or husband… in-laws…. neighbors… cousins…. virtual friends… the country your live in… the state you live in… the neighborhood you live in… the weather…. nature…

Relationship with your money…. your investments… your losses…

Relationship with yourself…. your mind… your body… your energy… your sickness…

Relationship with our beliefs…. our spirituality… our fears…

Relationships are still COMPLEX for a SAGE who lives in a cave….

I think we can confidently say that our LIFE is ALL BOUT our relationships.

We EXIST to learn from the complexity of RELATIONSHIPS!

We can’t avoid it… even if we hide in a cave.

All the Good, Bad, and Ugly sides of it… We MUST experience it.

But here is the SECRET…

Although what you experience outside of yourself seems REAL to us — it’s ALL and ILLUSION.

Because HOW you RESPOND to a situation is what makes any relationship SPECIAL…. OR NOT.

You have TOTAL control.

That’s why we should STOP blaming outside factors for our pain and suffering… cos it’s all SELF-CREATED.

Fact is, that ONLY enlightened people can move through relationships with ease… because they know that the WORLD is something that they create WITHIN themselves… and it’s NOT something external.

This is why I think ENLIGHTENMENT is the PURPOSE of OUR LIFE…. and RELATIONSHIP is the highest BLESSING in our life.

NOTHING compares.

Much Love,
Abe

PS. Look at the world and every situation you are facing… you can respond in a different way that creates harmony and peace. This is how we can our MASTER RELATIONSHIPS!

The ONLY way to Financial Freedom is Financial Education

The ONLY way to Financial Freedom is Financial Education

Financial Success & Freedom is only possible when we are EDUCATED in FINANCE. It’s a no-brainer!

If you want to be a doctor, then you go to the Medical School, invest time, money, and put in thousands of hours LEARNING.

But we are unwilling to invest our time, money, and efforts into learning and practicing the art of Finance.
It’s not just hard work, dedication, and passion…. but hard work, dedication , and passion in the RIGHT DIRECTION and RIGHT THINGS!

We know the HOW’S…. but we are not educated on WHAT TO DO.

Most people are NOT educated on:

1. How to make our money work for us.

2. How to preserve the value of the money that we make & save.

We make money by either trading our time, or creating value in the marketplace…. we already know that.

But how do we MAKE MONEY WORK FOR US?

And how do we KEEP THE VALUE OF OUR MONEY GROWING?

This requires some EDUCATION.

If you are NOT willing to put in the time, and effort in learning this — Financial Freedom is going to be a tough proposition.

The good news is that YOU CAN learn exactly how to do it and what to do….

It’s ALL here.

– Abe

PS. The money that you make by working all your life will ALWAYS be “scarce” (never enough), if you don’t learn and practice the disciplines required to keep more of it.

Connect to your dormant energy and power.

Connect to your dormant energy and power.

As entrepreneurs, we need to be motivated each and every day. What motivates us not just the money but something far greater than that.

If you  are lucky enough to figure out the purpose behind the work that you do everyday then it can fuel your whole day!

When you bring your purpose to business, you connect to dormant energy and power.

Doors open. Things turn around.

Stay focused!

Wishing you a great day ahead.

 
– Abe
Are You An Entrepreneur Or Wantepreneur?

Are You An Entrepreneur Or Wantepreneur?

  • An average American spends 90,000 hours at work in their lifetime.
  • But 87% of Americans have no passion for their jobs.
  • And 80% of US workers are outright dissatisfied with their jobs.
  • Americans spend 19 full work days a year stuck in traffic on their commute

This is and will be the BIGGEST market in the history of humanity.

As a network marketer, DO YOU SEE AN OPPORTUNITY in this?

If not, then stop calling yourself an ENTREPRENEUR.

Because that’s what an ENTREPRENEUR does. Takes advantage of an opportunity when they see one.

Think again…

Are you REALLY an ENTREPRENEUR or a WANTEPRENEUR?

-Abe